I’m surprised my first name became my life’s mission. But during difficult seasons, the difference between being happy and being joyful became a focus for me. It became survival for me. 

In my late teens, although I was blessed with a loving family, educational opportunities and a knowledge of God’s grace, a “feel good story” became my god. And when life got tough, I wanted to quit.

But grace gripped me. Faith stirred in me and I learned the importance of maintaining my joy — even when unhappiness appears. But joy doesn’t require me to put on a fake smile or pretense.

Real joy doesn’t deny real life. It provides real strength to keep us delighting and believing in the God who makes all things new. 

It is a principle I’ve shared for over 20 years of teaching small-group bible studies and speaking at Women’s retreats and conferences. As a licensed minister at my local church, I serve on the Women’s Ministry and Married Couples Ministry teaching teams.

Now one of my greatest joys is writing my heart out to share the power of living our joy story. Most days and nights, a cup of tea sits near my laptop as inspirations float through my mind and onto my keyboard. It all takes place in North Carolina, where I enjoy life with my husband Brady and our son.