This week on “Joy to the Soul Summer” we’re talking hospitality! When it comes to creating a welcoming space, my friend, Cheryl Luckett (of Dwell by Cheryl Interiors) always does it with grace and style. Her award-winning designs are found in numerous homes and trade publications. This week, she’s sharing her expertise and her faith as she gives tips on how to take the hassle out of summer hospitality. Thanks Cheryl!

I view myself as a steward of everything I have and that includes my home. I figure if it belongs to God, I think He’d want me to share it with others don’t you?

“Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.” – Romans 12:10-13 NIV

This is one of the many reasons why I love to entertain. Lately however, I have let my busy schedule get the best of me and haven’t done it nearly enough. That all changes this summer!

One of the things that holds many of us back is the pursuit of perfection.

I know because it chokes my creativity and keeps me from moving on ideas too. We tend to think that everything needs to be “PERFECT” before we open our homes to family and friends.

The problem is, things are never perfect and honestly, your family and true friends likely don’t care much about perfection. I’ve found people like being in a laid back environment, gathering with others and good food, with a little fun mixed in.

Here are a few ways to open up your home this summer while keeping things pretty simple:

1. Begin with a theme. I find it easier to plan when I have a theme in mind. A few of my favorite past events include an outdoor Movie Night and an Afternoon Tea. This helps to drive the decor, the menu and games and makes planning much easier.

2. Keep the decor simple. Literally, clean the house, set the table and be done. Remember the guests are coming to spend time with you and others, not to admire your decor (although they may) or scrutinize your home.

3. Maximize your strengths. Don’t let a weakness keep you from opening your home. No one is good at everything and the fact that you aren’t either, often puts guests at ease.

“We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully. – Romans 12: 6-8 NIV

For me it’s cooking. It totally stress me out, so while I like to entertain, I often host potlucks or outsource the food. Hey, I’m a designer not a chef. 😃 Because I love to create a beautiful home, I often play that strength up when entertaining. I host events just after I’ve decorated for the holidays or revamped my back porch. Maybe you make great desserts or cooking is your thing, maybe you love creative party games. Whatever your “thing” is, play to that strength and your guests will be happy to help in areas where you need it.

4. Relax and enjoy! It’s really not about you or me. The purpose is to share what God has richly blessed us with, with others. Shift your focus off of what hasn’t been done or what isn’t perfect and focus on creating a great time for you and your guests.

Above all, be intentional about enjoying yourself. That’s what it’s all about.

Southern Home describes Cheryl Luckett’s style as “opulence in reach” with “vintage treasures and ingenious restyles” as essential tools in her design kit. Cheryl believes her clients should dwell in a home they love; a place that gives them a sense of well-being both indoors and out. She describes her design aesthetic as sophisticated but approachable; easy and livable. Launched in 2012, Dwell by Cheryl Interiors continues to grow with clients raving about Cheryl’s ability to transform a space on a realistic budget, as well as her professionalism and attention to detail. Like Cheryl’s southern roots, her love for design runs deep.

To read more about Cheryl and see her award-winning design style, visit www.dwellbycheryl.com. You can also connect with Cheryl on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest and Houzz.

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  1. All the yeses! I need to remember that perfection is not the ultimate goal. It is better to have friends over and enjoy each others company. Blessed to be your neighbor at the Ra Ra linkup this week.

    1. Thanks for stopping by Tara. I need to remember that too!

    2. Thanks Tara! Yes, I’m a work in progress but getting better at letting go and enjoying!

  2. All wonderful tips! I’ve asked my guests to NOT do the dishes too, as I just want to visit with them!

    1. Hi Lynn! I agree with your “no dishwashing for guest” policy. I love that!

    2. Thanks for reading Lynn!

  3. Remembering that I can be myself and enjoy time with friends is so helpful. Plus knowing that Jesus often entertained others and made them feel at home encourages me to open my home and my heart. Thanks for sharing these great tips from Cheryl.
    Blessings,

    Marva | SunSparkleShine

    1. Thanks Marva! Authenticity with our friends is important. When it extends to our homes, I’ve seen it create unexpected moments of humor and hospitality!

    2. Thanks Marva! So very true!

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